Losing, Gaining and Embracing Friendship
"Friendship is overrated. Imma do me and worry about me."
That's the attitude of a lonely, selfish and hurt individual. We are one people. We all want healthy relationships. What do relationships do for us? Well what does a mother do for a baby? Take care of him or her; purpose of protection and love. Relationships is human nature as air is for us. We need it in all forms. Relationships are a protection and a need that we require. Through art and experience, we learn there are certain relationships inevitable and these are pivotal to a growing wholesome mind. The lack of experience of this might just be detrimental.
Have you ever thought about all the people that have entered into your life? The ones that left, voluntarily or involuntarily? The new ones that arrived and presently have embarked on your own personal journey? And the ones that you swore would be there from that moment on? Well this has been a break through. Sometimes I ponder what happened, was it my fault? Did you abandon me or was I too busy to flower our progress? Sometimes you grow apart and try to mend it, but it's impossible. They say as you get well into your 20s, losing friends inevitable. And I have lost many!!!!!
As of now, I have accepted that I might meet "Becky" the next day and me and her might be the best of friends for 6 months, 3 weeks, 2 days and 10 min. Take lots of pictures, post it on Facebook and tell each other our deepest darkest secrets and wonder why God didn't allow us meet earlier. And then one day stop communication or become acquaintances, or worst, become enemies.
What I am saying, accept relationships for what it is. Some come and others stay. Let it be. Enjoy the moment because it may not last forever.
Some these people I have known for years, some were there for a short time period. But whatever the reason is or how our relationship started, they were there for a reason.
Open your heart just enough to still remain who you are, expressing your inner beauty, but just enough. Enjoy your relationships now. And if you want or if y'all want more, make sure to water it down and go outside and check the sunlight once in awhile so y'all can grow very tall and strong.
